「想要擁抱時，就先給一個吧！」
各位朋友們，體驗過孤獨的滋味嗎？硬客剛剛從紐西蘭搬回高雄時，一個人面對著新環境，走在茫茫人海中，和人們擦肩而過，卻沒有一位可以交心的朋友。既然沒有任何朋友，那只有由自己主動開始認識其他人。於是，硬客自己做了調整：從一個友善的笑容開始。
硬客喜歡唱日文歌，而高雄有很多大廳式的ＫＴＶ，即大家在同一個大廳輪流上台唱歌的場合。我想，由興趣開始尋找同好，比較能找到有共同話題的朋友。漸漸的，我了解到主動攀談並不是什麼困難的事情。硬客就在這樣的場合裡，交到了一群知心的好朋友。
主動釋出的一個善意，化為更多的善意回來，成為良性循環。讓我們成為大方付出，也善於接受的人吧！
在這裡也歡迎各位朋友留言分享自己曾經的孤獨體驗，以及你是怎麼走過來的。或許你所分享的經驗，正好會幫助到另一位孤獨的人呢。
硬客.INKc
"If you want a hug, give one first"
Hello my friends, this is INKc. Have you ever experienced loneliness? When I had just moved back from New Zealand to Taiwan a few years ago, walking alone on the street watching people passing by, I had no friend. I knew that it was neccisary for me to take the first move in order to make some friends, so I have made some adjustments, starting from a friendly smile.
I like singing, and there are plenty of Karaoke bars around where everyone gets to take turn to sing on the stage. I thought it was easier to start from people who share the same interest with me, and I was right. Gradually, I realized it is not so hard to just start talking to someone, and I have made a bunch of close friends since then.
Give out kindness, and you shall receive kindness in return. Let us become generous givers and great receivers!
For people like me who had been through loneliness, you are more than welcome to leave a comment and share your experience here, let us know how you have overcame it. You're own experience might just help another in need.
INKc
